yes.. bridezillas are nvr attractive… I believe 90% btb will have this bridezilla syndrome sometimes during the wedding preparation.. more mood swings than before… some even become a perfectionist out of a sudden…
wedding planning can be quite stressful.. especially when the gtb appears to be nonchalant at all times… =.= every girl dreams about our perfect wedding… as we grow older, we realize that nth is perfect in this world…
I always feel that when planning a wedding, it is the couple’s responsibility to plan together… maybe its just around me… but I always see the brides planing and doing everything… the groom, on the other hand… instead of helping, only know to give sarcastic remarks…
sometimes I wonder… why most guys simply bo chup after proposal is accepted… hey… the wedding not jus for the bride ok… no doubt more focus will be on the bride… but cant the guys help in the preparation process so as to lighten the stress level of the bride? there are lots of things to do for the wedding… and its tiring to do everything oursleves… worse, when the gtb SIMPLY BO CHUP cnfm bring up the STRESS level…
y cant guys listen first before commenting? we may suggest some crazy ideas, and those ideas may be expensive.. but its just suggestions only lor… we can act on our own if we want… but we din… becos we respect, that is why we bring up our suggestions… instead of opening up for discussion, guys simply comment that the idea is extra cost la or simply waste of money… this is frustrating lor… how do you know it is expensive when you nvr try to find out the cost? how do you know its waste of money when you din even bother to check…=.=
just becos I have to follow your surname after marriage, doesnt mean I have to listen whateva you say lor… I may be conservative in some ways, but I am definitely not traditional… wedding is once a lifetime, of cos I would want to have a special wedding… I believe everyone hopes that their wedding is different from others…
since not open for discussion… den, from now on, I shall make decision myself…
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